If you think talking with your kids about risky behaviors isn't easy, you're not alone - it can sometimes be uncomfortable and embarrassing. When it comes to talking about sensitive topics like tobacco, alcohol and drug use and experimentation with sex, you might be inclined to say "don't do it" and leave it at that. Or you might be tempted to ignore the issues completely.
Even if it seems as though your words won't make a difference, research shows that teens who talk with their parents about drugs on a regular basis are about half as likely to use them. When kids are asked about risky behaviors, they confirm that their parents remain very influential in the decisions they make. Two-way communication about risky behaviors needs to start early and continue through adolescence. Parents who stay involved and communicate effectively can positively influence almost everything in their kids' lives.
Good communication between a parent and a child involves an understanding and development of effective communication skills. Throughout this site, you'll find tips for starting these important conversations with your child and ensuring that they're meaningful and productive.
Next Topic: Starting the ConversationAuthor: Dr. Charles Flatter
Among high school students nationwide, 16% smoked a whole cigarette before the age of 13.11. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (2005). 2005 Youth Risk Behavior Survey Results.